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Drama

Posted by Sue on October 3, 2008 in Random Thoughts, Wackos, Wasting Time |

Several months ago when my daughters and I decided we would make our own private group on World of Warcraft (called a guild) no one dreamed the drama we would encounter. I ended up being the guild manager (the GM)… only in our guild I'm called the Guild Mother. Plenty of days I feel just like that. The mom. After a few bad experiences with kids (12, 13 yr olds) in the guild, we decided to make it adults only. That has worked out pretty well. Except when the adults don't act like adults.

We've had some personality clashes which have ended up in hurt feelings and people leaving the guild. That was upsetting because we try and stress that unlike some guilds which are very goal-oriented and make work out of it, we want it to be what it is. A Game. We also don't devote 24/7 to it as some people do. Our motto is, "We have a LIFE". We try to maintain perspective.

Sometimes you just can't seem to avoid the drama no matter what you do. Case in point: We have a young married couple who joined soon after we formed the guild. They are both very out-going and were very chatty… basically telling us everything about themselves, how they met (on the i-net), their family (4 boys under the age of 4), and even went so far as to post pictures of the whole family on our guild website. At various times they've popped in with news of a new job… then another new job… then, oh, wait… her hubby got a new job now so she's staying home with the kids. All in the space of a month? That's a lot of job-hopping. They both seemed very open about themselves… volunteering way more info than was necessary much of the time.

A couple of days ago she was online and was talking all about wanting to be pregnant again. She wanted a girl and wouldn't mind trying a few times to get one. A few times? She's already got four boys, under four, and two of them have some medical issues. I am pretty sure they aren't rich as according to her the husband is a disabled vet and the jobs she keeps getting that she thinks are soooo great are at a 1.) truck stop 2.) convenience store and 3.) serving at Cracker Barrell (where they went for their wedding reception dinner – hoo boy). Don't get me wrong. I admire people who do those jobs because someone has to do it and it is a good, honest job. I'm just saying, they are not the types of jobs that will support  how many children? Which brings me to the big question of the day. My daughter asked her how many children she and her husband wanted to have. The answer?

12.

You heard me.

After we finished picking our jaws up off the floor, we listened to her talk about them both wanting to have a big family, all the love, yadda yadda yadda. Keep in mind, this conversation just took place about three days ago.

The kicker?

Yesterday she told me they were getting a divorce.

WTF?

She "just can't handle it any longer". She's "lonely". (Is because her husband has finally gone out and gotten a job?) She thinks they've grown apart. Um… okay. I didn't ask about the 12 kids. She said her husband thinks the kids should stay with her (of course he does…) and he's going to move out. Her sister is moving in to help her until she gets (another) job and gets on her feet. Oh. My.

Later I was talking to some of the other guild members and it came out that she has been secretly talking to several of the men from the beginning! She's been saying she's lonely and don't they think she's pretty and why don't they come see her in her hometown. YIKES. The ones I've spoken with so far are married and made no secret of that and she still went after them! I'm really stunned. First her and her hubs come on all mushy and stuff… and now I find out she's been doing all this shit on the down low? I mean, good grief.

I can hardly wait to see what happens next…

16 Comments

  • Hilly says:

    Drama, drama everywhere!

    I really hope you keep us posted on the rest of it when it all comes out. I thrive on shit like this, yanno…if it’s not MY drama. 🙂

  • Michael says:

    Aww I am insulted, she never ‘invited’ me to her hometown…. old geezers need not apply.

  • kilax says:

    LOL! Keep us updated on this trashiness! It’s a good laugh.

    I don’t understand people like this.

  • Sherri says:

    I’ve never played in WoW, but I’ve seen my Evercrack friends go through this. I play one MMORPG and it is ONLY a game — no drama, no trauma, no nothing.

    However, I have seen WITH MY OWN EYES, certain kinds of women (usually) and men (less often but still…) who are so unhooked from the reality the rest of us share that they do stuff like this and feel themselves perfectly justified because “it’s the internet, it’s all pretend, blah blah blah”.

    Do keep us updated 🙂 And do yourself a favor — don’t say ANYTHING. 😉

  • Becky says:

    I think you’ve just written a TV movie there. Keep us posted 🙂

  • Carrie says:

    Heh! Yeah, I want to know how this turns out too. Better yet, encourage her to start a blog 😉 lol

  • cmk says:

    Way back in the dark ages of the internet–we were still on AOL–I would frequent a site for women who had endometriosis. I had a young woman latch onto me and we began to chat daily. She had a physician husband and two young children. Within a month of our beginning to chat, she invited me to visit them AND stay at their house. Not much after that, she started to express how ‘dissatisfied’ she was in her marriage and how she was beginning to ‘look around’ on the internet with the intention of starting an affair. It didn’t take me long to find ways to avoid her–too much drama for me to handle. I never found out what happened to her–thank goodness. 😉

    Good luck with YOUR drama!

  • Nat says:

    oh god. We got mixed up in some drama way back in ’96. Back in the early days. Anyway, sounds like they need to unplug for a bit.

  • Nat says:

    Oh and four kids in four years. Completely retarded.

  • Fantastagirl says:

    I don’t get people like that.

    Sounds like a soap opera to me, hope you are able to stay out of it, and don’t get involved….

  • Lisa says:

    People are truly amazing aren’t they?

  • sizzle says:

    That’s some sad, fucked up shit. Excuse my language.

    I don’t believe she has 12 kids. How on EARTH does she have time to be on line!?

  • Sometimes I wonder what kind of void people are trying to fill when they claim to want so many kids. And four kids under the age of four?! Um, someone needs to explain the concept of birth control to them. Anyway, I wonder if the husband was doing the same thing to some of the women in the guild? And it doesn’t surprise me that the wife was doing it, it sounds like she just wants to be taken care of and not have to do any work. Wow such drama.

    And you’re right, drama is everywhere and sometimes it just really sucks.

  • pat says:

    Do you guys use teamspeak or some other chat for your guild…if not you should, its lots of fun and easier to spot troublemakers like that from the start,…since you don’t type chat you actually talk…and itd fun to organize stuff, raids, etc in your game while all talking together…

  • Al says:

    It’s like a car wreck. You are afraid to look, but you just have to anyway.
    And it’s a lot more fun if you are not directly involved.

  • suze says:

    wow, that is some drama! better than a soap opera 😉

    And also, 4 kids under 4? When does she find time to do this flirting online?!

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